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How long really is it...?   11/2/2004

My first post here....so i'm hoping it in the right place! <br> Hi everyone... <br> So when measuring a mans size does everyone think it should be measured from tip to base on the underside or the top side?


2 Comments, 18 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
seaboy1984 40 M
139  Articles
Fashion :6 Must-Haves For Fall 2004   11/2/2004

Ankle boots These Gucci chocolate brown ankle boots boast the elongated look of Western style boots, the ruggedness of biker boots, and the sleek toe of Italian designer shoes. Made from 100% premium leather, these ankle boots were designed and crafted with the utmost in care; they also feature cool and discreet side belt detailing. <br> Wear them with: Wear them with a pair of ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Mark44444444 51 M
4  Articles
male to join couples for MMF 3some   11/2/2004

Hi, <br> I would be pleased to receive any advice about being a male who is joining a couple for 3some play. I have yet to try it but hope to very soon so would love tips from either males or couples who have had this experiance.


1 Comments, 71 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
Re: MFM Do women like to see the men give head?   10/31/2004

I have had several couples (man and woman) in the past ask if I would mind either giving the man head or vice versa. The women usually put this question forth. I am always hesitant, but I don't like saying no to something that turns someone else on. Is this something that is particularly arousing for many couples?


2 Comments, 42 Views, 0 Votes
anal/also gangbang help please   10/31/2004

OK, I've asked for help before and no replies, so I'm asking again. First, I'm seeing a terrific guy, but I always seem to want more sex than he does. So, I've ventured into a few situations to try to be fulfilled. I liked sex with a couple, but honestly I think it's hard for the guy to please both women. Now I'd love to be with several guys at once. Thinking of going to a swing club dance, would ...


2 Comments, 153 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
SexVirussss 40 M
139  Articles
Same-Sex-Marriages   10/30/2004

If two males or females have love for each other and take care in good and bad times, I would still call that relationship as "Friendship" unless it involves physical intimacy. In case you want to refute what I said, you need to answer some fundamental questions... 1. what in the meaning of sex as in gender? 2. why sex or physical intimacy? 3. what is marriage and what does it mean ...


1 Comments, 9 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
rm_cplcam2cam 44 C
5  Articles
Great AdultFriendFinder   10/29/2004

This is excellent site.. ..


2 Comments, 31 Views, 26 Votes ,5.61 Score
Drizze69 32 M
1  Article
Trying to fix what I messed up   10/28/2004

Here is the situation. I was dating this girl and we were pretty serious at the time. Then my high school sweet heart comes back and tells me she wants to try "us" again. So I break up with my girlfriend at the time and get with my high school sweet heart. It didn't work out between my high school sweet heart and I. So now me and my ex-girlfriend are kinda talking but neither one of us ...


3 Comments, 15 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
WhipCreamQueen 53 F
1  Article
Be your self   10/27/2004

All I can say is that I have met alot of awesome people from AdultFriendFinder! One thing that I cna't understand and probably won't is that I am a very out going person with a great personality. I just absolutely hate when females are jealou over me or what I do. We are all our own selfs ok. No one can be me or no one anc try to be me. You all have your own style. Yes I go to parties and meet and chat ...


1 Comments, 15 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
How Should The Connection Start?   10/27/2004

When someone contacts me how should I go about actually meeting them in real life, the steps? How do I know when to turn away if something isnt right about them?


1 Comments, 12 Views, 0 Votes
Help   10/27/2004

How do I get my sexy wife interested in having group sex?


2 Comments, 18 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
To avoid "size issues"....   10/27/2004

I found this to be very helpful in not dissapointing someone you want to meet...Be honest. If you are not petite, be upfront about it in your profile. I made it a point to put my dress size on my profile. I'm not interested in meeting someone who is expecting a perect size six Victoria Secret model, then getting a normal (but attractive size 11/12 chick. There's no point in trying to ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 37 Votes ,8.23 Score
FLDamsel 44 F
1  Article
Having problems orgasming with partner   10/27/2004

I am a very sexual person by nature. I do have a partner at the moment, but I do masturbate at least once a day. My partner is great and makes me feel good, but I can never seem to have an orgasm with him or any man for that matter. I have no problem climaxing when I masturbate by myself. In fact it doesn't take long at all. I've tried concentrating on it when I'm with him and ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
rm_Edge3 61 M
2  Articles
RE: What kind of pics do men like to see posted?   10/27/2004

I agree with the gentleman below. We like to see the full figure with a pretty face if you do not mind showing us. Also, please, get some good lighting in the photo so we can see detail. It is always more aluring if you are truely turned on when you take the picture, either just after arousal or even during a sexual event. This lends some extra color to your face and other beautiful sections ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 0 Votes
sweety put on some clothes   10/27/2004

guys--just because you want to see naked pics of us right away the reverse is not correct! the people i respond to as a woman are those of guys nicely dressed, with a nice smile. the guys who complain women arent paying attention should go to their profiles and show us pics of the sex organ between their ears, not the one between their legs.


0 Comments, 12 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
I want a threesome but the wife doesnt.   10/27/2004

A couple of months ago my wife and I had a threesome with a friend of mine. Since thats all she talked about. So I finally gave in.. But I put a stipulation in it. The stipulation was that if i did this for her then she would have to return the favor for me....Well it hasnt happened yet... I asked her why she didnt want to have another 3some (her and another woman) what I got was tht she is ...


3 Comments, 48 Views, 8 Votes ,2.09 Score
friskymami69 38 F
4  Articles
Giving Oral   10/26/2004

Guys Guys GUys... When you are giving oral dont be scared. Jsut go for it. I had this one guy who didnt knwo what he was doing. He sprea the top on my pussy lips apart to the point were i thought he was going to rip them apart. Then you guys...Dont put teast the clit...slide down the middle into the hole and tounge fuck it. dont just focus on one thing. <br> <br> ...


2 Comments, 35 Views, 35 Votes ,6.94 Score
supersly2004 50 M
9  Articles
nice to be honest   10/25/2004

why will someone ask for, fun in london, via the chat room, at least 10 guys will reply, yet none are compatible.....??? same lady, does the same again n again, think its the only way she'll feel wanted...curvy.....


0 Comments, 16 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
married and lonley   10/24/2004

How can a married person who has never went outside there marriage find someone to be with that they can trust not to say anything and that is safe.


2 Comments, 21 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
water sports   10/22/2004

how many women enjoy water sports and why do people think its so wrong is it ok with a long term partner???????


1 Comments, 91 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
Need HELP about STALKER!!!   10/21/2004

Well just recently I have dubbed this girl who always to find herself at the same clubs and bars and constantly calls me every weekend, my stalker! Last night we were at a club, but I was really drunk, and I ended up making out with her. Near the end of the night I ducked out of the club, but she followed me home!!! What do I do?!?


2 Comments, 5 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
ron64andrhonda69 59 C
1  Article
How do you know when you are ready to swing?   10/21/2004

My honey and I are new to this. We just put our ad in AdultFriendFinder. We are looking for another couple to have great adult time with and make a long lasting friendship. We have both agreed not to swap. We are willing to watch and be watched. We have not found a couple yet that is willing to do that. So how do you know when it is a good time to swap?


0 Comments, 11 Views, 0 Votes
loveseeker19512 64 F
1  Article
Ok when you decide to wait for a visit, how alone should you be?   10/20/2004

I have been totally turned off socially, just to meet one man. For the last few days, there has been no contact after daily emails, and some phone calls. I had one date, during this time and was honest with him. I decided to forego anyone else to meet him first. I feel rather stupid, as my life has been on hold for about 3 months now, and I feel like I have cheated myself, in this matter. What ...


0 Comments, 22 Views, 0 Votes
Wife doesn't give blowjobs   10/19/2004

I've been married to my wife for 3 years. Our sex life is good except for the fact that she doesn't give bj's. I don't wabt her to think that all I want her for. But I feel if someone tells you to be patient for 3 years and nothing happens I should get a little pissed. I need advice for the ladies on how to approach her about this.


1 Comments, 20 Views, 21 Votes ,3.13 Score
HELP - This IS a "Sex & Swinger Personals site," right???   10/18/2004

I am baffled. I just got a very insulting e-mail from a female AdultFriendFinder member who just totally blasted me bc I am a married man and looking for an affair (i.e. you are a coward, not a real man, just looking to use women, etc.) I am certainly no angel, but I certainly do not feel I deserve that "hate-spewing" description. If you will humor me for a minute, I have some thoughts I need to get ...


4 Comments, 12 Views, 18 Votes ,4.63 Score
Coco19822001 35 M
3  Articles
Re: How do I get a response?   10/17/2004

Thanks for writing this muppet man! I'm facing the exact same dilemma. I've been on a few weeks and have got hardly anything. I don't know what to do! I've added/taken away from my profile aplenty and still nothing. I think I'm an attractive guy, so I don't know what's holding back the ladies. I've had 2 ppl view me abd one was older than me 37 to my 22. I'm getting frustrated with this. ...


1 Comments, 23 Views, 85 Votes ,8.02 Score
RE: Married But Not To Each Other   10/16/2004

I could hardly read your article because I was somewhere close to 90% sure it was written by my lover of the past year and a half to catch my attention. You are us; though I am divorced and have been for 4 years. In November he will celebrate his 25th Wedding anniversary with his sweet wife, the mother of his beautiful daughters, the woman who has him. He loves her, I have no doubt about ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 18 Votes ,4.22 Score
Listen up, gentlemens! Da goan sho 'nuff 'splain it to you!   10/12/2004

Alright, my home slices, one and all, i get more play then a stud bull on a milk run, so listen up. Da wolfie gots some wordz fer y'all. First off, treat women as people. That's right, daddy, girls like to talk as much about anything as we do. You think they go to the bathroom in teams to talk about you? Puh-leez! Second, if you want her to do anything freaky, do it yo' own ...


4 Comments, 27 Views, 38 Votes ,4.65 Score
Guen1981Again 31 F
1  Article
How to Succeed with Finding Sex on AdultFriendFinder   7/25/2004

Hey Fellow AFFers, <br> The secret to this site... to getting friends and sex and love or whatever it is you are looking for... is to make friends first. I prefer to use the chat rooms and talk to all kinds of people. I chat with very heterosexual gals and very homosexual guys, I chat with the very very old men and women and with the very young. I've gotten to where I trust a ...


0 Comments, 81 Views, 31 Votes ,6.21 Score
rm_MsLoveM 69 F
4  Articles
Re: Help asking for what you want   5/18/2004

First I'd like to commend you for deciding to do this for yourself! Second, good luck! I'm not going to tell you it can't/won't happen, but just trying to put it together will require lots of preperation. I attempted to have a little party for myself, with a little twist. I'm straight but my boyfriend is bi. I contacted guys who had written to me seeking a threesome, they said they were ...


1 Comments, 90 Views, 36 Votes ,7.81 Score