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Drinking   11/12/2011

Do you find it hard to just tell people that you don't drink? Every time I do, people look at me funny...


0 Comments, 22 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
im4xtc4u2 75 M
12  Articles
Be courtious !!   11/4/2011

Too often no one answers an inquiry and that leaves a large void. It doesnt take a lot of time to simply say, thank you for asking but no thank you. It is just a nice courtesy.


3 Comments, 55 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
jam7292000 75 M
5  Articles
Saying no is ok   11/4/2011

Too often there is no response to an email or IM. And I understand that people are very rude. Remember that it is the choice of the person to say yes or no and calling them names because there is a negative response to your email is not the answer.


0 Comments, 10 Views, 0 Votes
sex4_u_on_a_stix 43 M
3  Articles
Almost scammed!   10/22/2011

I must start with how AdultFriendFinder is a Terrific site and how quick and helpful they were on acting with my problem.

It started with a member leaving a wink I checked out his page and Who-ow he was cute. I left a wink and hot listed him now we have all done that Yes!

This is were it begins the emails back and forth nothing vulgar or offensive, just innocent emails.

After a few ...


1 Comments, 245 Views, 8 Votes ,5.10 Score
mrmoto3 57 M
11  Articles
The Magic Pussy   10/14/2011



Well I'm not sure if I should let you in a on little secret. What's so special about my horny wife that I just have to tell every one who can read the printed word ? Fair enough keep reading and see for yourself.I've changed the names of all involved. So if you shout out her name in the heat of well.....now you know.

My wife Carrie is absolutly drop dead ...


5 Comments, 335 Views, 11 Votes ,1.67 Score
serendips 53 F
1  Article
Not responding is worse.   10/7/2011

I don't like to hurt someone else's feelings, but not responding is a worse option only followed by being mean or rude in response.

When I came here I brought the understanding that I'm not going to appeal to everyone I'm attracted to - that's just the way life is. I don't send many e-mails but when I do, I like to hear back either way and I think most of us do as well. A simple quick ...


10 Comments, 216 Views, 14 Votes ,4.26 Score
Best way to meet a girl on here   10/4/2011

I have met women in the past for dates and right away I know I am not interested. I would hate to have a girl come to my house for the first time and not want to have sex with her from this site. I would feel guilty and give it to her anyway. What is the best way to figure out if this girl is worthy? Do you meet them somewhere real quick in public and make sure the sexual connection is there??


9 Comments, 169 Views, 15 Votes ,2.82 Score
Saying No Thanks   9/7/2011

Why do a lot of men get upset and become very rude when you decline their offer. Just because a woman is on here does not mean she is desperate, and one who jumps in bed with every offer on here.


21 Comments, 233 Views, 29 Votes ,5.55 Score
How many have sad "NO THANKS"   9/4/2011

Does it knock you confidence when a woman or man says "NO" to sex?


3 Comments, 79 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
rm_3some2013 29 C
2  Articles
no   8/24/2011

Do anyone understand no n e more?


5 Comments, 64 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
Why do people do that?   8/7/2011

I need a little perspective on why people will start chatting and emailing you on here and you seem to get along well ... then you agree to exchange pics and then "POOF" once the woman gets your pic they disappear without a word. I mean I can understand that they get the pic and see that one is not their type ... but is it really all that hard to just say that so there is closure? Why do people ...


8 Comments, 208 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
pipelayer882 49 M
8  Articles
BBW   7/28/2011

I have recently met a few ladies who have seem to have outgrown their profile pics, and it made me feel a little................ awkward! I have no problem with women with a little weight on them, but when they show up waaayyy bigger than you expect, then it's a problem for me. Anyone agree?


2 Comments, 72 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
If she says no, respect it!   7/24/2011

dont ever get mad because she said no, you dont know what her day was, what her life has been lately. just be respectful and say "ok" be a gentlemen, not a d-bag.


4 Comments, 60 Views, 13 Votes ,6.00 Score
rm_zitalnbuf 40 M
3  Articles
The right thing   7/17/2011

So man games...if your not interested, a simply "no thanks" is the right and decent thing to do...


0 Comments, 66 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
rm_2U4U2 60 F
6  Articles
Really dont know how to describe this   7/11/2011

but I really have a sex secret. Its like so bad thar I could loose my job and what is left of my relationship if u want to call it that.

I guess there is only one way of saying this. I been having sex with multiple men at the same time many times over. I love it and the more men there r, the more I want them fuck me and let thier friends know that I am a sex starved pussy who can take ...


5 Comments, 333 Views, 17 Votes ,2.98 Score
jhernan327 40 M
2  Articles
How to Say No in the Bedroom   7/9/2011

How To Say No To...



...the nice guy-nice, but not your type-who asks you on a date:

1 "I'm sorry, I can't." If you're feeling weak, you can add, "I'm seeing someone." If you have no spine whatsoever, you can start with "I'm very flattered, but..."

...your partner, who's suggesting a far-out sexual act:

2 Look appalled and shriek, "What is wrong with ...


0 Comments, 52 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
wantitrllllybad 37 M
3  Articles
Why does she get mad   5/10/2011

Eveytime i tell he ri don't want to have sex she gets upset


5 Comments, 84 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
NO NO NO   5/8/2011

What does it realy take before someone gets the hint and understands that no means NO.


2 Comments, 45 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
nonprobbwtranny 32 T
15  Articles
Saying no to Submissive men   5/6/2011

I'm having to say no thanks to guys that are looking to be submissive. I say that Two bottoms don't make a top. Im a feminine submissive bottom bitch and Im woman enough for a strong masculine man. I dont need someone else waring panties, waving their ass, and being a subby bitch.

I even put hat on my profile, that I am only a submissive looking for a dom.

Anyone else having ...


1 Comments, 92 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
nonprobbwtranny 32 T
15  Articles
I HAD TO SAY NO THANKS IN PERSON THIS WEEK!   4/30/2011

So, I sgree to meet this guy form here. The last couple of meetings before him were actually pretty good. Not bad at all. One was just a little TOO horny, but still not bad. One was perfect. Another was good too.

But this one guy from this week..... omg. He forgot to tell me he was missing half his front teeth. Among other things. I was completely...turned...off...and felt that he was ...


3 Comments, 156 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
FlaCpl4Female 50 C
9  Articles
Best way   4/29/2011

What is your preferred way to tell someone you are not interested? Does it get any easier over time? Some people make it simple by being assholes but it's tough when nice people have to be told no.


5 Comments, 101 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
Rorshausk 28 M
13  Articles
gay guys   4/14/2011

im not interested in them. at this site they keep iming me asking me to show my ass or cock off.

pretty sick of telling them no. i need to go to a site that actually has chicks there


4 Comments, 60 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
biggnhard09 43 M
3  Articles
HOW DO YOU SAY IT WITHOUT BEING RUDE?   4/4/2011

i was wondering how you could say this without sounding rude or mean, help


5 Comments, 122 Views, 9 Votes ,4.07 Score
KTP77 46 M
1  Article
Big Girls   3/7/2011

I'm looking for a kind way to walk away from big girls on this site without hurting anyone's feelings. Can someone please offer some advice.


18 Comments, 311 Views, 13 Votes ,3.48 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Divorce ! ! !   3/7/2011

The word "divorce, " from the Latin word meaning to rip out a man's genitals up through his ass, through his Levi's and plumb through his wallet and on to freedom. ...


15 Comments, 193 Views, 58 Votes ,0.79 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
Bill and Lynn   2/12/2011

For months Bill had been Lynn`s devoted admirer. At long last he had collected sufficient courage to ask her the momentousquestion."There are quite a lot of advantages to being a bachelor, " Bill began, "but there comes a time when one longs for the companionship of another being, a being who will regard one as perfect, as an idol; whom one can treat as one`s absolute own; who will be kind and ...


0 Comments, 68 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
pinktemptress 41 F
1  Article
wots the easiest way   1/19/2011

without sayin the obvious 2 a guy wots the easiest way ov sayin thanks but no thanks without hurtin any1s feelings lol x


4 Comments, 85 Views, 10 Votes ,3.19 Score
Sending a reply message   1/5/2011

If a person sends you an email try to be nice enough to reply back even if you are not interested. Lots on here use points to send emails and are not sure if the email was even received. So be nice enough to send a reply.


8 Comments, 127 Views, 13 Votes ,5.66 Score
rm_manz634 36 M
5  Articles
turning down a friend from becoming more.   1/1/2011

A few years back while going to college in fresno california i met a very pretty girl there while in political science class. we started chatting and as break time came along we went to the breakroom to get something to eat, while there we chatted and got to know one another a little bettter. she had been adopted when she was a and told me about her family background and her ambitions and goals ...


2 Comments, 165 Views, 8 Votes ,1.62 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Sex and Marriage !   12/20/2010

Sex is the price women have to pay for marriage. Marriage is the price men have to pay for marriage. ...


2 Comments, 59 Views, 21 Votes