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pinktemptress 41 F
1  Article
wots the easiest way   9/22/2010

without sayin the obvious 2 a guy wots the easiest way ov sayin thanks but no thanks without hurtin any1s feelings lol x


4 Comments, 85 Views, 10 Votes ,3.19 Score
Sending a reply message   9/6/2010

If a person sends you an email try to be nice enough to reply back even if you are not interested. Lots on here use points to send emails and are not sure if the email was even received. So be nice enough to send a reply.


8 Comments, 127 Views, 13 Votes ,5.66 Score
Traumst7 39 M
7  Articles
Question for the guys   9/5/2010

So I'm asking. Would it bother you guys if you were single, to sleep with a girl who was attatched?


2 Comments, 52 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
benallaboy 56 M
1  Article
Old photos   9/3/2010

What do you do when you chat to someone...get all friendly...then make the step and the person has posted a 10 year old photo? You cant say my how youve grown..


4 Comments, 121 Views, 9 Votes ,3.64 Score
ahhhh no........   9/3/2010

What is the best way to get away from someone you absolutely have ZERO interest in yet they think you are the stuff ? I have tried being nice. We are not "friends" she is just one in the crowd.


4 Comments, 60 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
on average...   8/25/2010

Curious ... I would like some advice on how to say "no thanks"; i.e. let someone down, especially upon meeting in person...in a nice way. I'm usually blunt and just say, 'I don't feel like there is a connection' or 'something is missing'.

But the ladies usually want specifics, and I don't want to be cruel to someone. I could use some good lines that aren't fake, but would help with ...


2 Comments, 84 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
studlyguy8922 39 M
2  Articles
this one is easy   8/2/2010

the simple way of doing it is just be as polite as you can and just simply say no thanks. if they cant handle it its not your problem and if they get pissy i say oh well its not the first time someone has been mad at me and damn sure wont be the last so they have a long line to stand in lol


5 Comments, 45 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
racquel76 47 F
3  Articles
whymen call u a bitch   8/1/2010

Why is it that when a man sends u multiple messages trying to get your attention, and when you ignor them they call u afat bitch... I dont get it who was emailing who i the first place.


17 Comments, 274 Views, 17 Votes ,4.26 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
???   7/31/2010

If a women is uncomfortable watching you masturbate, do you think:

(A) You need more time together ( She's a prude (C) She should of sat elsewhere on the bus


1 Comments, 35 Views, 9 Votes ,2.36 Score
xNBKxUT 40 M
1  Article
Walking the walk.   7/16/2010

Ok boys and girls this is just a quick little piece on "saying no". We all know we have been in situations that put us in a position of weakness or addiction, especially when it comes to matters of lust and love. How we comprehend and what actions we take regarding this weakness is what makes the difference between a healthy relationship and a toxic one. Any time you feel the need to justify, ...


1 Comments, 62 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
summertaiwan2010 36 M
2  Articles
??   7/4/2010

Iv been getting texts/calls from a girl who wants to meet for sex only. Met her in a club and had some dinner a few days after.

Not sure if i should do it or not...


0 Comments, 20 Views, 0 Votes
guys   7/1/2010

ok so i got on the im last night for the first time and all the guys started trying to talk to me sorry guys its me and my bf and we r only looking for girls thanks for the interest but not interested in guys i already have a man and that is my bf and we dont wnt a three way with a dude. SORRY!!!


0 Comments, 57 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
bubb4363 55 M
6  Articles
no thanks   6/30/2010

how hard is it for you to date, the same person, for a time, and every time sex come up, its always no thanks. when do you say good bye.


2 Comments, 59 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
__A_J__ 47 F
9  Articles
Whatever!   6/6/2010

I don't believe a lot of people understand what the two words no thanks means. How many times does a person need to say it? ...


16 Comments, 160 Views, 33 Votes ,5.99 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Watch it !   5/21/2010

Your life can be changed in a matter of seconds by someone who doesn't even know you yet. ...


3 Comments, 117 Views, 12 Votes ,2.80 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Credentials!   5/21/2010

Credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being....


2 Comments, 37 Views, 12 Votes ,1.92 Score
nvrgetsenuf 50 F
11  Articles
How Many Times Does A Lady Have to Politely Say No?   5/14/2010

Before she can't just flat out be rude? Have you ever been there?

My profile(check it out) is written to weed out the "undesireables." Sometimes it works & sometimes it doesn't. There always has to be one that thinks if he can just get you to say yes to meeting him he can sweet talk you into giving up some of that sweet stuff. You know the one I'm talking about...

He writes & ...


8 Comments, 172 Views, 16 Votes ,4.74 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Worry !   5/12/2010

Most of the stuff people worry about ain't never gonna happen anyway. ...


1 Comments, 31 Views, 10 Votes ,0.60 Score
Why do people do that?   5/2/2010

I need a little perspective on why people will start chatting and emailing you on here and you seem to get along well ... then you agree to exchange pics and then "POOF" once the woman gets your pic they disappear without a word. I mean I can understand that they get the pic and see that one is not their type ... but is it really all that hard to just say that so there is closure? Why do people ...


8 Comments, 208 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Wondering !   4/29/2010

Sometimes saying, "No thanks, " will have you wondering later on if you were right, and sometimes you'll find out later on from an event, that you made a great decision in saying, "No thanks!" ...


1 Comments, 46 Views, 24 Votes
justlovepussy88 36 M
1  Article
Bi/Gay won't leave you alone?   4/11/2010

Wow I have this issue where I can't get bi/gay guys in my area to stop messaging me about getting some secret head...anyone else have these issues?


1 Comments, 71 Views, 3 Votes ,4.90 Score
youngfunguyIL 39 M
6  Articles
Why?   4/5/2010

So this one goes 2 ways. Why do single ladies rule out out young guys on average and... Why why why why why do gays guys think that straight guys want oral? lmao.


4 Comments, 55 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
starbrite 43 F
1  Article
Have fun but be careful   3/21/2010

Coming out of high school I had only had sex a couple of times and at that time I really didn't care for it. How thangs have changed. But the first time I considered having sex with someone that wasn't my boyfriend was with a guy we will call bob. The first time I saw him I got wet and I wanted him so bad. I would lay in my bed at night and cum all over my fingers thinking about him kissing ...


6 Comments, 362 Views, 20 Votes ,4.53 Score
bmarietoo 54 C
5  Articles
strippers   3/14/2010

male half



it's been years since i've been but the best way i've found to get rid of strippers who want to table dance for you is to have a line ready. mine have been, "sorry, you look too much like my wife." and "sorry, i'm saving all my money for the massage parlor afterwards".

any other good one liners? have some fun.


2 Comments, 113 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
rm_wjb311 38 M
3  Articles
be nice!...or not   2/27/2010

a girl like you, but you are not attracted to her or the fact that she dropped out of high school....so instead of telling her that - you just say " I don't want a relationship at this time". but she is relentless, wanting to hang out as friends. to be blunt, she just isnt getting it. so, maybe not wanting to hurt someones feelings isnt a safe outlet...?


2 Comments, 53 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
tnawood3 54 C
1  Article
Is chivalry still out there?   2/27/2010

I would hope politeness is still alive and well in today's swinging lifestyle..I mean...So many unanswered e-mails...just makes ya wonder how some people are being brought up.? It's not hard to reply to a nice email someone took the time to write. At least this is our take on it. What do you think? We dont respond to nasty emails...or one liners....But a well thought out email goes a long way to ...


3 Comments, 80 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
Adventurer333 56 M
18  Articles
Easier for Women to Say No?   2/22/2010

Is it easier for a woman to say "No thanks" then a man?

When meeting for the first coffee, I am not always interested in following through. But I also feel like I can't say no at that point. I have, and it wasn't well received even though I did try to be gentle.

I am wondering if the male stereotype comes into play: men don't say no to sex.

Women are propositioned more ...


3 Comments, 90 Views, 5 Votes ,4.77 Score
crazyshelly87 37 F
1  Article
no thank you   1/11/2010

Hey everyone it's ok to say no thank you. When you do people should respect that.


3 Comments, 62 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
chrisomaha 44 M
11  Articles
when saying no thanks politely doesn't go over   1/8/2010

sometimes it seems like i am very careful to pick my wording in my response, and i am still treated very rudely to someone i didn't pursue in the first place. i try to say things that won't hurt any feelings, stay respectful, and still are firm that i am not interested. i am wondering what everyone else does when this doesn't seem to do the trick and now some rude person won't leave me alone.


2 Comments, 27 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
rm_krisshh81 33 M
14  Articles
Say 'no thanks' the right way   1/7/2010

Overview: It's a good practice to let job candidates know when they haven't gotten the job. Use this sample thanks-but-no-thanks letter to build goodwill with people who may be a better match for future positions.

One of the least pleasant aspects of the hiring process is conveying to candidates your decision to pass them over. But if you've decided to eliminate someone from contention ...


5 Comments, 57 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score