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when saying no thanks politely doesn't go over 1/8/2010
sometimes it seems like i am very careful to pick my wording
in my response, and i am still treated very rudely to someone
i didn't pursue in the first place. i try to say things
that won't hurt any feelings, stay respectful, and
still are firm that i am not interested. i am wondering what
everyone else does when this doesn't seem to do the
trick and now some rude person won't leave me alone.
2 Comments, 27 Views,
5 Votes
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Say 'no thanks' the right way 1/7/2010
Overview: It's a good practice to let job candidates
know when they haven't gotten the job. Use this sample
thanks-but-no-thanks letter to build goodwill with people
who may be a better match for future positions.
One of the least pleasant aspects of the hiring process
is conveying to candidates your decision to pass them over.
But if you've decided to eliminate someone from contention ...
5 Comments, 57 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score
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I'm not sure how to say it but.... "No Thanks" 12/18/2009
Recently, I received an invitation to a 'party'
that included men and women having fun, as we do. The invitation
was amazing as it had me down as one of the one kinda-single
guys to be there.
My arousal peaked as well as my normal paranoias of being
discreet. I emailed back that I would be interested and
a day later received the location and address. It also included
the caveat that i ...
2 Comments, 102 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Is it better to ignore 12/18/2009
I was just wondering how many people out there, have expressed
intrest in someone, who wrote, only to be ignored by the
person.Isn't it more polite to kindly say your not
intrested, then to ignore the person and leave them hanging?
5 Comments, 119 Views,
7 Votes
,2.28 Score
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Big Girls 12/10/2009
I'm looking for a kind way to walk away from big girls
on this site without hurting anyone's feelings. Can
someone please offer some advice.
18 Comments, 311 Views,
13 Votes
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being polite but firm 12/9/2009
Well having read a few of the articles - it seems we're
all more or less on the same frequency as it were.
Ive had quite a few occasions in the past where despite what
my profile says - ie in a relationship and not looking to
play, a few folks have been rather insistent - Ive found
it an exercise in politeness but also firmness.
There do seem to be quite a few people for whom no ...
2 Comments, 73 Views,
6 Votes
,4.50 Score
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How do you tell a couple no thanks after meeting them? 12/5/2009
Weve not had to experience this yet because all the couples
we played with were great, but how do you tell a couple no
after meeting up with them and it's not what you want?
4 Comments, 90 Views,
8 Votes
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I know, we've all encountered someone who... 11/29/2009
... can't take a hint, a direct "no thanks",
or even sometimes a baseball bat over the head to understand
that you're not interested. Especially the ones that are standard members and can't
read profiles, but still can't grasp it when you describe
your situation/desires and keep pressing to meet you.
Someone needs to design hardware so you can send an electric
shock back to someone who ...
4 Comments, 122 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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respect for the individual 11/4/2009
Lets prove some of these nay Sayers wrong and show that we
can be grown ups' and get together for real hook ups.Life's
too short for lead on's and game playing.Just be true
to others and leave the mind games away from this place.Know
one would want to be treated like that, what makes it okay
for you to do it to others.Just be yourself, life's
too short!!
1 Comments, 29 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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when just saying no isnt enough... 11/1/2009
Guy: I would go to the end of the world for you! Girl: Yea but would you stay there?
Man:is this seat empty?
Woman:yes and this one will be too if you sit down!
Man:your bodys like a temple
Woman:sorry no sevice today.
Him: your place or mine
You: both, you go to yours, and i will go to mine
Sleazy Guy o you come here often? ...
2 Comments, 45 Views,
9 Votes
,1.93 Score
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Taking a break 10/25/2009
It came suddenly I'm sure for my husband but one night,
I asked him how he would feel about suspending our AdultFriendFinder account
temporarily. He asked why...my reply....I just want to
take a break. It seemed like so much pressure to have sex
with EVERYONE and that is NOT who I am or he is for that matter.
I wanted to slow down and get back to us and remember what
it was to feel passion instead of just ...
8 Comments, 262 Views,
13 Votes
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No Thanks 10/13/2009
How can another person say that they didnt c the sign when
a person is no interest n then u shouldnt have 2 hurt some
1 feeling 2 say No Thanks !That person already knows they
just dont want 2 accept the facts , no calls, no chat, no
time and they cant get the picture mmmmmmmmm They got just
leave me alone can they get that Live, Laugh, Love!
2 Comments, 61 Views,
4 Votes
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Nancy Reagan said it 1st 10/12/2009
Yes she did!
1 Comments, 32 Views,
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i never say no 9/29/2009
no is not in my vocabulary especially when it comes to sex
i will always try it atleast once! it is ok to say no but i just
never do!
2 Comments, 78 Views,
5 Votes
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just say so 9/24/2009
I remember old saying that went something like this:treat
others the way you would want to be treated...Life's
too short for games---don't lead others on.It's
just not cool.A simple "no Thanks" should work
just fine...
1 Comments, 48 Views,
5 Votes
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How saying " No Thanks"? 9/18/2009
Hello all,
Many ladies are trying to contact me here... In some I am interest and in other I am not. When you are not
interest in someone you can build a real realation, right?
or even be honest in your feeling? Is there a way to say No thanks smoothly without hearting
her?
thx
1 Comments, 38 Views,
6 Votes
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Here's one way ! 8/25/2009
Just tell whoever that your seeing someone and you don't
want to cheat on them. ...
4 Comments, 78 Views,
31 Votes
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too what 8/10/2009
never say never to sex drugs always say no and then u will
be safe
2 Comments, 38 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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passing 8/4/2009
whats the best line you used to reject someone
1 Comments, 72 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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What's worse? 7/22/2009
Being horny as hell and laying in bed next to a hot chick or
guy you can't fuck (for whatever reason) or being horny
as hell and laying in bed next to a hot chick/guy that won't
fuck you?
8 Comments, 70 Views,
3 Votes
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Really No Thanks? 7/21/2009
Saying No is not taken lightly by some.Saying No Thanks
is a strong suggestion that the person really means the
opposite. Men are attracted to women who use the NO word and always
confuse the situation by thinking it means YES. For the life of me I cannot understand why? People are the same anywhere you go. They argue about everything
then say no. When the opportunity comes for them to say really ...
5 Comments, 98 Views,
5 Votes
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When to run away?? 6/29/2009
Recently I met up with a lady in Cambridge who seemed on the
surface to be a normal, relatively sexy woman. She had a
few more tattoos than I was expecting but they seemed tasteful.
She was in pretty good shape and it turned out she was a black
belt in karate. On leaving the bar where we met I asked is
she was ticklish and she said no and dont - I took this to mean
please tickle me now, but when ...
7 Comments, 170 Views,
5 Votes
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Fatal attraction ! 6/9/2009
Fatal attractions can come from just merely saying,
"No thanks!"
Have you ever known this to happen to anyone near to you?
...
3 Comments, 96 Views,
33 Votes
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Not saying no means no? 6/2/2009
How many of you just leave an email unanswered if you're
not interested?
How many of you actually reply to say "No thanks"?
18 Comments, 173 Views,
12 Votes
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Ok this has been on my mind... 5/3/2009
so i have a general guideline when it comes to guys, i prefer
guys between 18 and 26, but it seems that i get more emails
and IMs from guys who are over 26...how do i nicely let them
down?
9 Comments, 212 Views,
8 Votes
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How do YOU handle this? 4/26/2009
Let's say you have made a connection here (or on another
site, whatever...) and you finally meet. You discover
that there is just not a good connection there, or no real
attraction... what do you say? How do you handle that situation
without hurting their feelings? This has happened to me
a couple times, and I never want to hurt someone's feelings,
but you also can't pretend there's a ...
11 Comments, 205 Views,
16 Votes
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the lead on...... 4/17/2009
Were all adults here-hence the name 'AdultFriendFinder'please
just be up front and honest-if your not interested just
come out and say it.......
4 Comments, 59 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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Here is a scenario: 4/13/2009
We, as a couple, choose to play together with women..not
necessarily other couples. We get propositioned all the
time from couples that want us to come play with them. As
inviting an offer as it is, we have more of an interest in
playing with the female counter part of the couple as opposed
to both of them. We do not full swap, as of yet, but most of
these couples want us to "equally" share the ...
4 Comments, 83 Views,
1 Votes
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why when we say 'no thank you'? 4/4/2009
Some guys say when they have been told No thank you, well
'your loss'
why is it my loss? if i don't think we match for whatever
reason, how can that then be my loss.
It makes me laugh cause I can only assume that they think
they are gods gift and that i should be grateful or something.
To me a loss is losing someone who dies not someone I am not
interested in having sex with. ...
10 Comments, 142 Views,
10 Votes
,2.99 Score
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what is it.. 3/15/2009
with people who cant take no for an answer? why are there so many nuts out there that think just because
you slept with them a couple times you are meant to be together
forever?
3 Comments, 63 Views,
7 Votes
,3.80 Score
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