Hey If you give out fun and smiles you get it back. If you give out crap, welcome crap back ( my weird little philosophy ) I enjoy stimulating conversation, banter and deep chats. Im also a ‘real’ human with a varied mixture of emotions moods thoughts and fantasies, the latter I want to indulge more...... Im very much into Yoga and Meditation, it has helped me so much in life, to deal with problems, issues and lifes challenges, if your into Meditation or want to try it, even better! My main objective is to meet the right per, explore and play together[B][/B][B][/B][I][/I]

My Ideal Person I dont just have random sex with strangers, i get turned on with the mind before anything sexual evolves.

If your attractive yet have no light in your fire, or hate, or have no passion, I don't find this sexy-or arrogance or coldness

I do not 'expect ' women to dress up / wear 'sexy' clothes / lots of make up etc for me.

its fine if thats what YOU like. ( and of course I appreciate it when someone does dress up)..... I'm also turned on and find attractive someone who doesn't feel the 'need' or pressure from society to dress up in stockings / wear or dress a certain way....

I'd rather have sex in a field or the floor or in Starbucks toilet haha - opposed to a Bed. haha

nothing wrong with scruffy, nothing wrong with no make up, nothing wrong with having short hair, and nothing wrong with just being YOU.

i am bombarded with men 'find' attractive in women, and yet I always question it. As its not what im into, mainstream objectifying of women.
I do not conform to what movies / hollywoord / porn or the media SHOUTS at me women MUST be! So much pressure on women to dress this way or that way, do this do that... GOD it must be exhausting ! what happened to naked bodies and dancing under the sky!
Initial chats, via phone then a meet up would be nice to see if we both have the chemistry, if we don't hey, we can be friends

Im off to Yoga ....bounce....

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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