So! let me introduce you to me,I'm intelligent, strong, and talented. I would like people to know a bit about me, so here's some history. I grew up, and still live in a small community, an hour south west of red deer. I played hockey and baseball, spent a few years in 4-h. Learned to ride, to farm, garden, and care for animals. I spent a lot of my youth in the bush, hunting, fishing, and camping. Despite embracing the country life I always struggled to fit in. Then in my late teens I started struggle with bipolar. I struggled with my illness, unchecked, till I was 25. At this point I made a conscious decision to love my life. It wasn't easy! I first had to learn how to love myself, then I had to figure out who I was. From there i needed to decide who I wanted to be. It was a difficult and long road, and I fell down a lot. But I found solace in science, reason, and learning. I also found peace through understanding, compassion, and empathy. These things saved my life! But by learning different ways to think, by eliminating the negative aspects of my character to make room for these new enlightened ways. I alienated myself from my peers. 2019! This year has been, perhaps, the best year of my life. I believe in honesty, open communication, and loyalty. If my partner and I come to an agreement, I will not stray. And though I've never cheated, exclusivity always felt like a collar around my neck. I always had difficulty approaching women, flirting, conversing, making the right moves. It's why I drank and did drugs, or so I told myself. But I quit drinking and doing drugs years ago. I was still struggling with social anxiety and awkwardness. I live by two mantras "There is no problem I cannot overcome with the right tools" and "I have only this life, and I will strive to live it the best way I can". I bring this up because I had reached a point in my life, yet again, when I needed some wisdom. My problem was, I wasn't confident! I had tried my whole life to find my confidence. This spring with my mantras in mind I set out to find my confidence. And I did, in a book! Soon after I began having more success with women, and began seeing women on a regular basis. I was very happy! The women I met opened my mind to new ideas, and they allowed me to explore my new desires. A couple helped me to realise that I am polyamorous, another helped me explore my kinks. I didn't know what this door opened to, but I investigated and realised there was a place for me in society, where I could be accepted. That was not all I found, I became very interested in human sexuality. Since I was on my own sexual journey, I began to learn more and more. Particularly women's sexuality and anatomy. I found it very fascinating, how wonderful, women are inside and out. Don't get me wrong, I've always been passionate about women. But the more I learn the more I love, and while there is much to be learned from books I have always found practical application far more educational. I am a man who gets the majority of his sexual satisfaction from from pleasuring my partner. After their bodies are slick with sweat, chests heaving, muscles quivering, lost in exhausted ecstasy. Then I’m happy! I am a virtuoso with my tongue and fingers. I've memorised the pleasure map of a woman's body. Pleasure is my game! But I quickly realized that I wasn’t as successful in my endeavours as I wanted to be. Every once and a while I met a woman I couldn't satisfy. In years past I didn't think much of it, but that wasn't acceptable anymore. So I started asking questions. Of the women I slept with, and my friends. And what I came to realize is that many sexual acts my peers would call taboo. Where exactly what these women were looking for. I started with toys, massage, and rough play, and found the results very pleasing. It got me searching for more. While I’ve just dabbled I have had a lot of fun with bondage, sensation play, and daddy domination. In casual interaction with woman I’ve always been kind, compassionate, helpful, protective. In the past this has always set me up to be a friend. My gentle demeanour was mistaken for indifference. But in sexual situations I am a different animal entirely. I am very interested in exploring my kinks, and my dominant side. I’m not interested in this just being a phase, I want to see where it can take me. I do have boundaries, and I am respectful of other people's boundaries. The real lesson was when I met a woman who pushed my boundaries. It was then I realised, not only is sex fun, is has no limits beyond ones imagination. That reality makes me want to explore, so if there is anyone who wants to play, or teach. I’m willing and able:) For the first time in my life I know that the way I feel about love is not a perversion. Its beautiful! For the first time I know what I want to do with my life. I know which direction I'm heading, how I'm getting there, and even though I still have a ways to go, I will do it!

My Ideal Person What I am looking for is playmates, teachers, and partners. Not casual encounters, but relations that have the possibility of lasting months or years. There are kinks I wish to explore and be taught. And I have a deeply romantic, passionate, sensual side I wish to explore. I love variety! So what I'm looking for in a partner really doesn't have a lot to do with looks. Of course there has to be physical attraction, I won't deny that. What I'm saying is I find many different physical traits attractive. I find the female form to be about the most beautiful thing on this planet, in all its variety. On the other hand, when it comes to personality. I can be a little more choosy, after all personality is where it's at. If a woman is rude, crude, cruel, close minded, manipulative, and or dishonest, thats not the one for me. Which isn't much to ask, as far as personality is concerned. As far as lifestyle is concerned I'm looking for partner/partners who enjoy trying new things, respect themselves, and are up for a little adventure. Sexually I need my partner to have a fairly high sex drive. I'm not the kind that expects to get without also giving in return. In fact the majority of my sexual satisfaction is derived from pleasure my partner. I also have a deep respect for boundaries. And I'm fully capable of controlling myself. The one thing I will not accept, is sex or emotion being used in a game of control.
What I'm looking for is a good women, who want to have fun and see where life takes us.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Massage, sensation play, daddy domination

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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