I would consider myself an intellectual per with an enjoyment of fitness / activity. Every second doesn't have to be culturally enriching or physically active; however, I do like to be out and about much more than sitting around. I am a genuine friend as well as a cunning lover (To those that are deserving :-) I've been described before as the type that would give someone the shirt off of my back if I thought they needed it. When I am into someone - I am not the type that keeps them guessing regarding my emotions or how I feel. If I like you, it will be blatently clear. I am much more of the touchy feely and bold type (As opposed to conservative and reserved).

My Ideal Person At the moment, I want to find a friend who's a balanced combination of playful and smart. The type of person that enjoys the thrawls of passion, as well as platonic, fun activities.

Things I am looking for:

1) Someone that has a brain as well as their own opinion. sometimes the intellectual disagreement is as exciting as discussing common views.

2) Someone that takes pride in their appearance. This does not mean you have to be the perfect size, shape, etc... It does mean you are reasonably happy in your own skin and you dress in a manner that is flattering to you. I've met plenty of size 4 women that need continuous reminders of how beautiful their are as well as a few women that were a bit larger than a size 4 that had confidence and sex appeal to boot.

3) Someone that eats more than 3-4 kinds of food. I get some people have very particular diets. However, they must eat more than my 6 year old niece (I.e., A diet comprising of more than Chicken nuggets, mac and cheese, hotdogs, and popcorn shrimp *LOL* While I'm not Andrew Zimmerman out there; I do enjoy trying new foods from time to time.

4) Open to sharing playful passions as well as their kinks (However vanalla or rocky road they may be

5) An amazing kisser

Things I am NOT looking for:

1) I don't do well with flakey people. I get that everyone is on this site for their own reasons; however, I believe everyone would agree that we are all adults. As such - I am not a big fan of having to make plans several weeks in advance and then cancelling at the 11th hour. Either you are interested or not and available or not. Enough said.

2) I do not do codependent well. Moreso - I do not do codependent that poses as independent I am open to the possability of meeting someone on here that becomes more than a fun and exciting friend. However, I am not open to meeting someone that goes nutty if I do not write them back within the same second that they wrote. I promise to write people back as soon as it is feasibly possible. Sometimes work or life or both get in the way of my social calendar. I do however, reply as timely as possible.

3) Never cancel a date via text message. It is just improper form and lacks decorum.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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