I'm a young looking 51 year old that prefers women in their 30's or 40's, tho' I have met a FEW 20 somethings that seemed to know what they wanted and how to please their partner. I am not solely looking for a long term thing, but am open to one if that is where life leads, and would be happy with that opportunity with the right woman. I am healthy with no diseases to spread and have been tested regularly (I'm in the health care field). I prefer one on one intimacy to the bar scene and small parties versus large gatherings. I'm not into pain, but enjoy sexual experimentation in other ways. I am also very discreet and expect similar courtesies. I mentioned [I]honesty[/I] earlier. A woman who has the courage to be honest with me as pertaining to her sexual desires, romantic desires, personal and emotional needs and the atmosphere she requires to feel comfortable will find me a very accommodating gentleman. I believe that my own satisfaction is a direct and proportional result of my ability to ensure that the above issues are resolved satisfactorily. I am told that I am an attractive man with broad shoulders and very expressive eyes (the window to my soul?? ;-)). I'm a bit shy when first meeting someone, but am able to open up quickly with a bit of getting to know my partner. I love sex and feel that the best sex ([U]for me[/U]) results from my ability to focus on the needs and desires of my mate. The more energy I put into pleasing my lady, the better the sex is for me. I have been told that I have quite skilled tongue, lips, and fingers. It really is better to give than to receive. I enjoy some experimentation in the bedroom (or where-ever). Maybe some light bondage or blindfolds. I [B]DO NOT[/B] get off on causing my partner pain. Light spanking would be a stretch, and the extent my S&M attempts. Please write me for more info.

My Ideal Person I am looking for an exceptional lady with integrity, honesty and insight. A woman who understands that a man can't "make" her happy. Happiness comes from within. I try to be sensitive to my partners needs and expect the same from her. I am not into head games, either giving or receiving.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Too many to list.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Massage, Watching her masturbate.

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Angelina Jolie has the sexiest lips in the world. I can definitely
fantasize about her and her lips.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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