When I'm with a new lover, as we kiss and as we connect, I feel as if butterflies were dancing and floating above us. No two lovers are alike, but generally new lovers do kiss better, I think its the newness. I think that every time we are intimate, it's a very peral experience, even if it's with more than one other per. Your should live your life to its fullest, and never regret what you have done. We all have a choice on how to conduct ourselves; either in a monogamous or a non-monogamous relationship. Women and couples, married or not, should have the freedom to be sexually and/or emotionally involved with more than one per at any given time. It's about relationships practiced HONESTLY, with the mutual consent of all - where no one is deceived and you CHOOSE whether or not to participate of your own free will.

My Ideal Person Are you an adventurous? Do you want a fully charged sex life? Do you have an Open Marriage ? Are you both comfortable and secure in your relationship, or if single can you be comfortable having more than one lover ? I meet new friends in a hotel lounge or through internet contacts. I'm a single man looking for love. I travel from CA to AZ-NM-NV quite often. I only respond to others with full pictures available,

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
OUR FIRST SWAP We had read articles in magazines that had increasing stories
and letters from people who were into wife swapping. We
admitted to each other, that stories got us exceedingly
hot. We related the scenario's we create if we ever
did any swapping, just to test each others feelings, on
the subject of watching your lover be with another person.
We both agreed it would just be sex, and sex was there for
anybody to enjoy. After all, we loved one another, and sex
with other people didn't necessarily equate that
we wouldn't love each other any less; we would just
be sharing our sex with others. <br><br>
I had a friend who lives in Bouquet Canyon, North of LA. He
and his girlfriend had experimented with wife swapping
and gave us the number of a friend of theirs who play the game
with them. After serious talking between the two of us,
I called and arranged for them to come down and meet us. We
were all into mushrooms and I had a wild bunch that we all
could enjoy. <br><br>
They arrived about nine. Trish and I had some wine, a few
joints, and were feeling no pain when they came in. We soon
offered our guests some schoom's and listened to some
music. <br><br>
We didn't have a clue how to begin the swapping, and
I can say that after the wine, joints and schoom's,
the room felt a little hazy to me. We were all sitting in the
hall, on the floor. Ed, I think his name was Ed, started coming
on to Trish and she was very receptive to his advances. Ed's
partner and I just kinda watched. My dick was going nowhere,
and besides, I was much too enthralled in watching my girl
friend respond to another man's touch. <br><br>
It wasn't to long before Trish was naked as a jaybird,
Ed, having undressed her before our very eyes. We watched
as he took off his clothes and immediately mounted her.
Gawd it was exciting. It was all so surreal. It was like we
were watching a movie, but the sound effects and the smells
were so real. <br><br>
Ed's partner and I barely said a word to each other,
we were both so fascinated by the sights and smells before
us. It wasn't long before he grunted, momentarily
spasmed, and reached that bliss only felt after a good experience.
We had another glass of wine, shared a smoke, then they got
dressed and left. <br><br>
We hadn't as much as shut the door behind them when I
shed my clothes and struck my cock right up inside Lana,
churning myself into that slick, wet, hot quim, and depositing
my own creamy load inside her alongside his. <br><br>
We cleaned ourselves up a bit and went into our bedroom.
We related to each other all of the feelings we had in our
first experience in wife swapping as it was called. We talked
about our jealousy (I felt none and told her so), our jitters
and awkwardness at the first time (we felt really stupid),
and our desires to do it again (both of us were really excited
at that option). We just didn't know how to start. We
decided to just let things happen as they might and see what
developed. <br><br>
That was just the beginning of a wonderful relationship
with Trish.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A store dressing room, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Massage, Watching the excitement build in the room, Watching my lover ebing taken and enjoying themselves

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
A free thinker, someone who knows the ropes and is comfortable
with themselves.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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